About This Quote
This post, which is part of a series, was written by a woman who teaches other women how to talk to and understand men. The first thing that she says, though, is that it's not all about you: "You can't control him! And he can't change you." She goes on to say: "If your man wants to walk out the door...just let him. You don't have to ask him if he's coming back." The post continues by explaining how there's no need for you to get upset over things like this: "If he comes back, great. If he doesn't, that's his choice. We just don't have to fight about it." The post then makes it clear that sometimes aggression and anger will come up: "There will be times when we just don’t get along and we won’t feel like talking things out." But most important of all is the fact that there's no need for you to change the way you treat the man you love: "I know this is hard for most women...but if your man loves you, he’ll not only try to understand your point of view...he’ll be willing to accept it."
Source: Abandoned Breaths
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